Abuse can be financial trap
When she had to go grocery shopping, on his schedule, he gave her a handful of cash and a grocery list. The amount of cash was always too small to purchase the items listed. He also gave her an impossible time schedule, 20 minutes to drive to the store, 30 minutes to select her purchases, and 20 minutes to drive back home.
From their home in the country, this poor woman had to travel at break neck speed, grab the items from the shelves rapidly making the decision which to leave behind because she didn’t have enough cash, and then come tearing home.